Maddie,
Cut the grain. Hay only. Move her feet in the round pen loping about two laps each way. Make her turn into you by taking a couple steps back wards and then in front of her shoulder. She will probably turn her butt to you. If she does this do not let her get away with it. Turn her back the other way in the same direction she was going. And turn her again. Make sure it is into you. BACK UP AND STEP IN FRONT OF HER.When she turns correctly and faces you. Give her a good girl and a little rest. Do not pet her. Go the other way after she has had a 20 sec rest. What you are doing is establishing you are the hurd leader again. And making sure she respects you by putting her eyes on you, Make her lope. trot and walk. ( make sure you say behind her shoulder or she will not move forward) . Use a whip to motivate her to move her feet make sure you smooch and cluck before you crack the wipe or spank. Let the whip go to the ground after she turns several times correctly. Walk up to her indirectly not facing her but side ways. Turn your back to her and walk away. If she follows you she is being submissive to your leadership. Do this for a couple days before you ride her and she should come back to a submissive state of mind.
You do not use spurs to make a horse go forward. Spurs are to make the horse soft on the sides or to lift them up into collection. You squeese with your legs and smooch to mke them change gates, Using a spur to make them go will make your horse resent you and makes the horse hard sided . Why dont you take your spurs off until you learn how to use them. A spur is to be rolled in timing with the horses gate to lift the horses back or they are rolled in the side ( not kicked or stabbed) to make the horse come off your leg and get soft in the sides. You need to have someone teach you to use a spur because your screwing up your horse, Go take a riding lesson Until you understand horsemanship at advanced levels you should refrain from using spurs your going to do more harm.
To get forward momentum you spank the rear with the rein after you smooch, and then squeeze with your legs. If the horse does not move for ward then. Spank.with the rein on the rump.
Getting your horse not to trott or lope when your not asking for it comes from doing one rein stops. If you want a walk smooch first, squeeze the ribs and move your hips forward to help sigal the horse to move. If the horse tries to stop squeeze and smooch, It the horse tries to trot before you ask pull the horses head around to a one rein stop. Each time the horse tried to get ahead of you you correct the with a one rein stop. In 20 min your horse will not want to move before you because it would rather listen that do the one rein stop.
I would advise you to go take some riding lessons before you get hurt or mess up your horse. I am not trying to be mean but you have no idea about basic horsemanship. You should know this very basic stuff before you try to teach a horse anything.

Thanks,
Tom

My horse had a pretty supple mouth and I was riding her without any problems thanks to you. But last week I was sick all week and could not ride her. When i got on her a few days ago she had a lot of energy and was responding to my hands, seat or legs as well as usual, ive always used spurs but now when i press them on her she bucks and wont stop until I let her stop, I cantget her into the canter and once i finally do she runs around i cant get her to slow down! this has happened 3 days in a row so I dont think it's she has extra energy anymore, please help!

Maddie